Mixing work with pleasure
Tuesday, July 29th, 2008Well, it has finally arrived, or at least almost…….’getting away from it’ time – the holidays!!
I must say this year our family holidays will be quite different to those we have experienced for the last 8 years. Normally I am totally immersed in cricket, either a Test series, or preparing for an upcoming.
Like all big families, the Australian Cricket team arrive into Melbourne with more luggage than you can poke a stick at. During this 8 year period, we have seen the family grow in age as well as size. Our youngest was 5 and oldest was 16 when we made our first venture south to join the celebrations; while the Haydens, the Gilchrists, the Husseys and so on were flighty young couples, no children, and no need to bring the grandparents and/or nannies for babysitting duties.
Holidays are a special time of the year, and while we had a Test match to prepare for, I think we were all pretty good at making sure we were able to have fun when we could.
Like everything we do though, if we can get the preparation right in the first place, then the time that follows has a much better chance of delivering what we would hope.
With this organisation and preparation, I think we were able to achieve the best of both worlds – the family holiday and the serious stuff of a Test match.
We were able to devote ourselves to the important part of holidays which is family time. Work, or Test match preparations was allocated time slots in each day, and while these times were a priority, it did mean that once this work had been completed, the family ruled.
It is ideal not to take work away with you on holidays; but if you must, compartmentalise it so that when you are with you family, you are totally there with them, not drifting back to work.
With family time and getting away from it comes the chance to freshen up. Throughout the course of a long year, all of us become fatigued mentally and physically. The holidays are designed to recharge those tired batteries. Everyone has different ways of doing it from simply doing nothing but sleeping or catching up on those books that have been gathering dust by the bedside table to being more physically active, walking with your wife, swimming, golfing, fishing.
Ensure by the end of the holidays your energy levels have returned – you are freshened up and looking forward to the challenges the new working year will present
Combining the cricket with the family holidays, meant that the playing and support staff needed to make sure the Test match preparations were spot on. It required us to maximise the use of our time.
If you feel that work needs to be done on holidays, do not over allocate time. Using this method forces you to fine focus on what is important and maximises the time used.
The real beauty of holidays is that it frees the mind from our everyday working life. It is a wonderful place to be and often it provides us with brilliant flashes of what the future may be. Allow yourself every opportunity to dream, because this dreaming has been generally locked away during the year. Do not discount your fanciful pictures of life and what could be. Talk them over with family and see where it takes you. Remember, the only limits to what you can achieve are the ones you set yourself.
Make sure there is plenty of dreamtime in the holidays so that you can look forward with freedom
And finally, holidays is about having fun. Enjoy talking and doing things with your family. We can find fun in the simplest of activities or the most expensive. Wherever you choose to find yours, make sure you get plenty of it!
Bring back the child in all of us – have a fun filled holiday.
So whatever you do these holidays, make sure you –
• Prepare well
• Make family the priority
• Leave the holiday refreshed
• Fine focus if and when required
• Dream looking forward
• Have fun
John Buchanan is the former coach of the Australian Cricket Team. He is in demand as a speaker, corporate coach and sports coach. John Buchanan is available to share his philosophy for success expanding the benefits well beyond the cricket team and into any area. www.buchanancoaching.com











